Saturday, May 26, 2007

Solidarity

The other night, I ran into a friend who had just suffered a split from his long-time girlfriend.... and was consequently drinking himself into a coma. What could I do but offer a supportive, manly hug..... and match him shot for shot?

Then we smoked some spliffs, which made us feel a lot better. (Well, it made me feel better; and he was putting up a good show.) And then we went to Jianghu, again. Xinjiang party band Hummingbird were on (I picture them as kids, Uyghur goatherds in the middle of nowhere probably, being given a CD of The Buena Vista Social Club by an indulgent tourist, and conceiving the dream of moving to Beijing and becoming a showband specialising in Latin jazz. Crazy, incongruous stuff like this happens all the time in China!), and they always draw a good crowd. The inevitable post-gig jam session was threatening to go on all night.

Around 2am or so, a subconscious impulse of self-preservation took over (I have had such a draining week at work), and I went home. I had left the bar to spend a penny (you have to use the public loos 200 yards up the alley), but found my feet automatically turning the other way, towards the main road. Most nights I walk home from there, but on Friday I found every fibre in my exhausted body craving a taxi, so..... It's only a ride of 5 minutes or so, but I still managed to doze off for a moment.

Damn, Jianghu is definitely becoming a significant focus of my life; indeed, it is threatening to become 'a place of adventures'.....

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think I know Hummingbird... they are a good show.

I'm sure your friend appreciated the company in his moment of sorrow! That alone probably made him feel better.

The saying is "misery loves company", but I don't think that means the company should be miserable, too. It's just that when people are down and out, it's nice to have a friend around who is trying (successfully or unsuccessfully) to lift the spirits.

What do you think? how do you handle those difficult moments in your life?

Froog said...

I'm mostly terribly unsociable - tend to stay home until I'm ready to face the world again.