Not one of the jollier Christmases I've ever had; but perhaps I can learn from the experience....
The Top Five Things I'll Try To Avoid Next Christmas
5) Forgetting my host's address
This shouldn't be a disastrous oversight. After all, even if you have the address (and a map.... and some kind of hi-tech homing device...) you're still not going to find a Beijing apartment the first time you visit it. You do kind of rely on being able to contact the host - or someone - by telephone, to be guided in the last little bit of the way. I almost baled on my Christmas lunch because no-one was answering their phone as I neared the venue. (I was literally on the point of giving up and going home, when I happened to bump into the host making a run to his nearest supermarket.)
4) Arriving too early
Well, I arrived when I'd been told to. But almost no-one else showed up for another two or three hours. At least I got to try to keep the peace between my two neurotically squabbling co-hosts....
3) Too many strangers
The group ended up being just a little too large for comfort, I felt. And, at the risk of sounding what might seem a vaguely racist note, there were perhaps rather too many Chinese folks involved; to try to save myself from that charge, I might modify it by saying there were too many non-Brits involved. This was essentially a Brit party, and Christmas is all about the nostalgia of shared experience: if Americans and Aussies don't get the British Christmas, then the Chinese certainly won't. And having too many people around who don't have a clue what's going on does tend to leech away the energy of the occasion. It didn't help either that so many of our company were journalists: I love journalists, and many of my best friends are in that profession, but... they do tend to take their work home with them; and they do tend to get very regularly screwed by the Chinese authorities' not-so-furtive attempts to 'bury bad news' over the Western holidays (last year it was Liu Xiaobo's sentencing on Christmas Day; this year, the announcement of another interest rate hike by the Bank of China). No, having so many people arrive late and/or leave early - and wear distracted frowns while they were there - didn't conduce well to jollity either.
2) Nemesis
Well, I suppose the point of a Nemesis is that you can't avoid it/him/her. My particular Nemesis has insinuated herself into my life so comprehensively - living in my part of town, frequenting my favourite bars, making a point of trying to be friends with all of my friends - that there is no getting away from her. God knows who 'invited' her this time! I rather suspect she just got wind of the party and invited herself; that is the thing that most exasperates me about her. I suppose I should be grateful she only turned up in the evening....
Ah, but these are all fairly trivial pieces of social observation. It wasn't such a bad day at all, really (excellent food!). It's just that I wasn't in much of a state to enjoy a party myself.....
1) Ill health, depression, lack of sleep
I'd had an utterly wretched week, and then spent most of Friday night puking bile down my wash-handbasin... so, I was setting out for Christmas lunch on about 3 hours sleep, with very little appetite and a powerful aversion to the idea of drinking (I stuck to local beers most of the day, and that only because the host was short of drinking water). The main lesson I take from this year's less-than-optimal experience is: Don't go out if you're feeling that ill.
I think that's going to be my last Christmas in Beijing anyway; so, 'lessons learned' may not have much applicability next year. Just venting, really (as usual!).
I hope you guys out there had more FUN than I did over this last weekend.
4 comments:
Well, misery loves company, so revel in the news that my jollility rivaled yours in the SHORT department. Pneumonia tops my list of Things to Avoid Next Year at Christmas. I am told I don't drink enough. Perhaps this would help.
Gosh, you trump my Scrooging with that, CW. I hope you're feeling better now. Take care of yourself.
Christmas is was overrated, as are New Years and birthdays. Next year I should have a year of gainful employment under my belt, and I intend to spend Christmas on a beach in SE Asia. Santa and the Christmas Spirit are pretty much dead to me.
Bah, humbug!!
I think you need to watch The Muppet Christmas Carol, Elly. Or Scrooged.
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